Parents, are your kids literally driving you round the bend by getting you to teach them to drive?
Do your best efforts end in blazing rows and even worse?
According to a new report there’s a good chance they do, because a third of parent-child driving lessons lead to misery.
Trouble is, 50% of parents feel they can’t say no to their youngsters’ pleas to take them out. And of those nearly half admit they’ve not done any preparation for teaching their children to drive.
A survey by driving school BSM shows that parents’ lack of confidence and poor knowledge puts relationships under strain. It can also seriously impair learner drivers’ development. The study called the “Reluctant Instructor” shows that:
A third of learners have had to swap places with their parents as a result of the tense atmosphere.
A quarter of parents have had to grab the car controls from their child.
One in five learners have had to pull over to the side of the road in order to avoid a dangerous situation.
A third of parents have lost their tempers, with arguments carrying over from driving lessons into the home.
One in 20 learners feel their relationship with their parents has worsened as a result.
Top psychologist and counsellor Dr Aric Sigman said "Teaching children to drive is one of the most challenging experiences of being a parent.
"Letting a teenager take control of the wheel can be an uncomfortable role reversal and requires an unprecedented level of trust."
The survey also shows that parents’ poor preparation can also make learners nervous – a third admit they make more mistakes than when out with their instructors. Mixed messages also cause problems, with a massive 75% of learners saying the advice of parents contradicts their instructors.
BSM road safety consultant Robin Cummins said: "As a father, I know how difficult and frustrating teaching teenagers can be.
"However, parents can play an invaluable role.
"A balanced mix of professional training and responsible private practice can significantly improve the chances of passing the test." |